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Cake day: September 19th, 2025

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  • It comes and goes in waves kinda like New Year’s resolutions but in general the amount of kindness and care you invest in yourself and those around you increases.

    Your body will punish you harder and harder for staying up late and drinking=> ok let’s do less of that. (I’m at a place now where that happens once every 3-4 months…and even then it’s just 2-3 beers and I’m done)

    You notice your social circles becoming less dynamic. So you value those around you more and more.

    You learn more empathy, so you take more care of people.

    You learn the value of time and choose to spend it with your loved ones instead of insert meaningless time sink.

    It’s not perfect, but it does increase.

    At least that has been my experience so far.


  • Aha! The question that has many pastors digging deep to get a good answer too. And usually they end up with the age old “mysterious ways”.

    The “best” one is usually along the lines of: god wanted a relationship which involves choice and free will, so he had to create a division that would allow humankind to have a choice in the matter.

    So god feels lonely, causes all misery on earth that ever was and ever will be. Because free will… On top of that he also indirectly (oh screw it, it’s god) directly causes eternal torture in the afterlife for a vast majority of humankind. Because also, free will (I keep stressing that because that in itself is a huge problem for theologians).

    And then all that leads to god killing itself in the form of its own son. Because some of you touch your own genitalia in glee.

    Genius.