• Xaphanos@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    By what metrics? Savings? Mean annual income? Lifestyle? Peace of mind? Spousal trust? Family relationship quality and/or quantity? Leisure time? Mental and/or physical health? Respect of others? Number of mortal enemies?

    • 「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」@sh.itjust.worksOP
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      2 months ago

      Would you rather live in their place or no?

      If you would switch places, then they have better lives, in your opinion. If not, then you clearly prefer your own life, hence you have a better life.

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        2 months ago

        Decent metric.

        Yes my life is astronomically better. I am not an anxious basket case like my mom. Nor an unmitigated narcissist like my father. My friends and family truly like me. I own my house in my own name along with my wife. I have no mortal enemies at all.