Perfectly reasonable for you to ask that.

Even with IUD you can get pregnant. And yes STDs and things, if you were in a long term relationship then it’s probably fine, but if you’re hooking up for the first time and they’re fussy about it, then yeah, they’re not good.

During Superbowl I was talking with a software guy working for a big shopping ( data) company, he was telling us how every interaction on their website is recorded for data analysis, and his own wife was shocked. It came up after I prompted for that conversation, talking about the license plate tracking in parking lots (which she didn’t know about).