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Cake day: June 13th, 2023

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  • As a person who has two kids and does a lot of playing and house work, if that’s what you love then do it. But fuck, I prefer the cubicle.

    My kids are great, but everything is so repetitive and mandatory. Laundry HAS to get done. Shopping. Cleaning. Cooking. Even when you’re sick because your partner has their responsibilities too. You don’t get a lot of autonomy.

    It’s a lot.



  • There’s plenty of diversity here. Loads and loads. I see it in every single thread.

    But it’s different than the diversity on other platforms. The diversity on other platforms is like “should we feed the homeless or should we bomb another country?”. And the diversity here is more like. “Obviously we need to feed the homeless, that’s not a question, but we differ on how we accomplish that goal”.

    If you’re looking for that other sort of diversity, you need to find a site with more sociopaths.





  • I call into question your claim that most aren’t like that. But even if most aren’t, it’s what the community is known for.

    If you don’t like what the community is known for, you have options. You can try and fix the reputation, you can deal with being stereotyped, or you could just be a person who doesn’t masturbate, and not part of a specific community.

    I don’t think there’s a fourth option where you get to be part of the community, which is known for being horrible, but everyone just magically knows you’re not one of those ones.

    Personally, I’ve chosen option 3 for most of my proclivities. I don’t drink, but I’m not part of AA because of their religious craziness. I don’t eat meat, but I’m not out here supporting PETA.