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    4 days ago

    Childbirth for sure was up there. 4 days of labor and then an emergency C-section. It’s very painful to have had abdominal surgery and then not be given pain meds afterward.

    My husband at the time refused to wake up when our new baby was crying that same night. Having to haul myself out of my bed with no pain meds and a new incision across my stomach to care for a crying newborn was traumatizing.








  • Do you think this is helpful advice for someone who has already decided they want a photographer and have budgeted for it?

    It’s cool that you didn’t feel the need for photos. I will point out that physical photos are one of the first items people try to grab when there’s a fire or other disaster that forces them from their homes.

    Different people will place different priorities on wedding events. It’s ok for OP to want to have photos of their wedding.