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  • I think this point is getting buried, but the regulatory change that needs to happen to start with is not the algorithm alone, but Monetization realignment!!

    • Shift ad models to reward completion (e.g., pay creators per finished video) rather than scroll depth
    • Offer paid tiers where users pay $2-5/month to disable all addictive features (no A/B testing on these users)
    • User-controlled ad preferences with revenue sharing
    • Behavioral cost transparency

    Or others. Basically disincentivize addictive apps. I would also suggest penalizing harshly those that do, as many of these companies make so much off of this that only the harsher enforced penalties will force change (if they don’t avoid it through regulatory capture).


  • Chronology is only one part of this, although I think it is the right foot forward.
    We also need:

    • Mandatory session limits with friction
    • Notification redesign replacing real-time alerts with scheduled digest batches
    • Engagement friction mechanisms
    • Especially need algorithmic transparency & control to make the user aware and in not manipulated
    • Behavioral feedback systems
    • An most importantly Monetization Realignment

    The parents point is true, but more generally I think it needs to be that “people” need to be held responsible and accountable for their actions both as adults and children, and to enable this they need to be taught critical thinking skills as well as given the tools to make this happen. Common sense isn’t common, it’s instilled.




  • There is a lot here, but if you feel you can’t act using LE help, than Ohio has zero-criteria, male-inclusive housing options. They rarely use the word “shelter” on the web so they do not get swamped by single men seeking free motel space. You qualify under “survivor of family-violence with disability.”

    When you call: you can give “first name only” and withhold your exact address—they will still arrange transport. Bring legal-ID. Proof-of-employment are not required; safety trumps paperwork.

    Crisis Hotline 24/7 (call from any phone – they will NOT disclose caller ID):
    Ohio Domestic Violence Network – 1-800-934-9840 (ask for “male survivor advocacy”).
    Faster SMS/Text (smart-number line): Text “SAFE” + ZIP to 44357.

    Three metros with immediate walk-in male units (all wheelchair/adaptive):

    • CHOICES – Columbus & Delaware detox-friendly, 30–90 day stays.

    • YWCA Dayton Brukner House male wing funded specifically for adults with disabilities; they take SSA or SSI clients and help reinstate payments if interrupted.

    • Victims Assistance Cleveland & Erie County – 24-bed male DV dorm; can place you same night in independent-living room once CPO filed.

    Next-72-hour legal & relocation funding:

    • Flexible Financial Assistance – pays up to $2,500 toward deposit, mover, phone, food. One-page form + pic of lease invoice.

    • Hotel program – ODVN hotel-voucher code is good for 7– 21 nights; county‐to‐county portability. Confidentiality clause forbids hotel from telling anyone who book and paid.

    • REACH Rapid Re-housing – month-to-month subsidized lease for disabled adult DV survivors, renewable for 12 months.

    It’s worth mentioning that if your bother is drilling reserve status, or is a retiree who receives retired pay then call the Military Police & DoD Inspector General: 1 800 342-9647. Privileged report triggers immediate base-side investigation and overnight restriction orders—they don’t need your parents’ permission and cannot reveal your identity to them. Based on what you have written, he’s in violation of Article Article 128 — Assault & Threats (10 U.S.C. § 928), Article 134 – Communicating a Threat, Article 134 — Disorder/Neglect to Prejudice, and Article 133 – Conduct Unbecoming an Officer / Qualities of Leadership.

    Under Ohio, there are at least two statues: Domestic Violence Civil Protection Order (DV-CPO) – R.C. 3113.31

    • specifically covers threats to kill or harm “household members” (supreme court.ohio.gov).

    Red-/Yellow-Flag Extreme-Risk Protection Order (ERPO) – R.C. 2923.132

    • judge can order police to seize all firearms & ammunition immediately if the respondent poses a “threat of violence”.

    These two will remove your brother’s guns/ammunition within 24–48 h. And the Judge can make him vacate the home and stay 500–1,000 ft away even if your parents co-own the house.

    There is no criminal charge, no attorney required (R.C. 3113.31(J)): county clerk must supply forms, waives all fees.

    My suggestion is that tomorrow morning (or tonight if your county has night magistrate), walk in or use webcam petitioning (many Cuyahoga, Franklin, Summit and Hamilton courts offer online intake after 5 p.m.).

    Make a check box “Emergency ex parte” (he does not get notice until order is already in force). You can attach as evidence: a short sworn affidavit of tonight’s threats, any photos of dead animals, and/or a recording (legal in Ohio if you are participant to the conversation).

    The court can sign the DV-CPO order the same day and it will be served to him as soon as possible by local PD/Sheriff (generally within 24-48 hours). The hearing has to take place within 7- to 10-day which is a temporary window for you. If he violates the order that it is an instant jail offense R.C. 2919.27.

    Forms & on-line helper: olh-cpo-launcher (Ohio Legal Help).

    You are not required to broadcast to your family that you sought aid. Every corner of reporting him is lock-and-key confidential—police, courts, shelters. The only way your brother learns is if he breaks the order and is arrested, at which point you have county-funded housing, legal advocacy, and a safety net already in place, and he has a history which is going to make it much harder for him.

    Stay safe, and reach out to safe places if you need space.