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  • Like other commenter said, it’s hard from your perspective to tell the difference.

    Depression is a weird way we evolved to protect ourselves that has gotten out of hand.

    Depression will tell you that you’re undesirable and unlovable. And, if you believe it, it’ll get louder and more insistent. It actually feels safer and safer the more you listen to it. You might not realize it but you will try to stay depressed. Because it feels safe.

    The hard thing to do is to tell Depression to fuck off and to do things in contradiction to the narrative that you are undesirable and unlovable. The more you ignore Depression, the weaker it gets and those negative thoughts and opinions of yourself fade away.













  • What do they want to do?

    An iPad with a keyboard can serve the needs of a significant amount of users. I know people for whom it’s their only device apart from a phone.

    A hardcore gamer will want Windows. Linux can play a lot better of games natively or fairly easily via Proton. macOS has some good ones natively but playing via Wine is more complicated. Some specialized industry workflows will require it. Windows-only games and applications are the only reason to recommend Windows.

    Mac/macOS is great general purpose hardware and software. Good applications are available for art, science, engineering and productivity and it’s certified Unix. The ecosystem can be slick—Handoff from/to iPhone, unlock with Watch, TimeMachine backups, etc. Support people are usually native speakers from the same country. Some good native games and some through Wine are possible but Window and Linux have significantly more.

    Linux can work for basic email, productivity and web browsing. Gaming choices are better than macOS but Windows is still better. They don’t have to worry about ads or the next interface fad being forced on them. They’ll likely need a bit more hand-holding and support down the road. They’ll need a Linux guy but they can be up and running on old/cheap hardware.