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Cake day: June 13th, 2023

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  • My ex drugged and raped me and I’ve had people straight up tell me “well maybe you should have put out”

    Like what the fuck is wrong with people. God forbid a woman have boundaries. I wasn’t ready for sex and my ex didn’t give a damn. Looking back, he was hella abusive and just had me charmed.

    The whole thing was so traumatic that I repressed the memories for five years as a survival mechanism. Apparently some people think that I wouldn’t have CPTSD if I’d just push my own boundaries aside and let the dude fuck me. I was already doing that for the guy, but sex was a boundary I couldn’t push aside at that time…




  • I middle/high school the best sub was rumored to live out of the back of his station wagon and had cardboard boxes to extend the back of it for extra shelter. It didn’t help that the man embraced the rumor.

    He once shared some pie with me when I was having a small breakdown in an empty room senior year due to my severe depression and from being bullied severely. He just offered me pie and we sat in silence and each ate a piece and then went on our way. It was nice.









  • You’re welcome! Running a boarding stable is a nightmare. I’ll stick to one horse lol. She’s expensive enough lol. She’s 26, and will be turning 27 in September. I’m hoping to get her to 30. She also may be able to be ridden again if the vet gives it the okay. I’ll find out that when spring vet checks happen lol.

    If you snoop on my profile, she’s like the main thing I post lol. I’m actually going to be putting up a new pic of her in a few minutes lol.