That’s actually the basis for Mahayana, which then transformed into multiple kinds of Buddhism. I’d consider it a pretty spiritual stance, if not only because it means that you’ve spent time thinking about what is “reality” and our role within it.

Not even to my SO. Quite some time ago we discussed it and agreed that we won’t be giving gifts for “celebratory dates” (i.e. Valentine’s, Christmas, birthdays). We instead give each other gifts at any point in time, just because we felt like it. No pressure for buying gifts in advance and instead we get very usual “Hey I saw this and thought of you” all year long.

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