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Cake day: August 1st, 2023

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  • You met three days ago? And you are “basically living together”?

    Considering the length, it’s a fling. Considering you haven’t talked about it, it’s a situationship.

    My unwanted and unasked advice is to take some distance for at least a day before calling it anything at all. And then talk about expectations.

    Honestly (anecdote time!), when I started going out with my partner, I had some weird and totally personal hang ups with the word “boyfriend”. So for a couple of months they were “the person I am seeing” then became my “partner”. We had the conversation about exclusivity and such, talked about where we saw stuff going and so on, but wording was difficult. A word is just a word, as long as you both agree on the rest it doesn’t really matter much.



  • I never traveled solo, and don’t regret it at all. I enjoy more spending time with friends and acquaintances than doing things “my way”. I still had smaller trips on my own, arriving earlier than the rest of the group, but never enjoyed it much. So, I don’t think it’s dumb, do what you feel you will like.