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Cake day: March 28th, 2026

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  • Does your partner want this? Every partner I’ve ever had thought he was doing me a favor by becoming hairless in some way, shaving his chest or manscaping all the way down to the skin and I hate it! Keeping things tidy is one thing, shaving down to the skin is another. So unless your partner has expressed a desire for you to do this, ask them first! If you already know this is something they want from you, well good on you for trying to do it the best way possible








  • As a person who has strong bipolar tendencies but not over the threshold for a diagnosis even I struggle with these sorts of things and often find myself asking “is this thought not just self sabotage at the end of the day?” I’m also physically disabled and go to a lot of doctors appointments, who now use AI for notes and I don’t like it either but to allow that to stand in the way of my care would absolutely be self sabotage. If my doctors started outsourcing other aspects of their jobs to AI I would seriously have a problem and would reconsider my position but note taking is incredibly time consuming for doctors and if using software that transcribes our conversations allows them to be better at their actual job of being a doctor that’s a compromise I can make, especially when I remind myself bipolar symptoms often get in the way of a persons willingness to compromise



  • Most recently? I was in a car with someone I don’t like and they pulled a douchebag move skipping a bunch of traffic to make an illegal turn, while running a red light no less. Obviously I was like wtf if your problem cause it was an asshole move but also endangered me. This bitch really said it was fine because no one tried to stop him. We are in a car remind you so I’m like wtf does that even mean, how could the other drivers have stopped you? By like, crashing into you to prevent you from doing that? And he said YES!!! What?? So unless you’re willing to physically intervene on what this dude is doing whatever he does isn’t bothering you… he’s said a lot of other crazy shit of this nature but this was the most recent.