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Cake day: October 19th, 2023

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  • Yep. There’s a general confusion between gender identity and gender expression, that’s why you “expect” non-binary to look androgynous. But indeed, a nonbinary can have a cisman-passing or a ciswoman-passing. I am non-binary and I “look like a man” and it causes me to be insulted or mocked when I go out with makeup or wearing a skirt.

    But yeah basically all you need to understand is that gender identity does not have to match a gender expression.


  • In the past year, I’ve donated to Moodist (one shot, maybe it was the year before though. Not sure.), Monocles (one shot) Zen Browser (monthly). I also donate each end of year to various association for around 300€ : against violence to women (to shelter them), for animals (antispecieist associations), anti-advertising, LGBTQ+ associations and human right associations. These are mostly french associations except “La Ligue des Droits de l’Homme” I think.

    I donate to homeless people too, though I do it less recently because I try to think more about my future… and I watch free roller derby games 3 times a year in my city. It is free but they take money if we want, so I give a little (like most people I believe).



  • I love it because I bought everything I need to feel good in my office : a dock to switch easily between work and personal computers, a standup desk, many things to reduce back, neck and shoulder pain too. I have a wall painted that I can look at when I need to have a break. I don’t have transport, so I wake up 15mn before work starts. There is no noise. When I feel I can work less without feeling tracked : as long as I get my work done in time, there’s no issue. I can take breaks to do some house-related tasks (tho I don’t take breaks lately, but I could do it).

    I could not go back to any job requiring me to go to the office.