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Cake day: December 24th, 2025

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  • I feel like you are taking everything I am saying to the extreme…

    The point is that you never know until you need them and they either fail you or not, and even someone that has been there for you everytime for years and you might consider to be 100% reliable, can surprise you and stop being reliable.

    It is a fact that no matter your situation, you are not guaranteed to have external support, but obviously for some people it is extremely unlikely to happen and for others it is more likely.








  • But think about it, you can never truly know, both for factors outside of their control and factors within their control. For example, they might get sick, they might die, they might get mental health issues that stop them from being a good friend. As well as factors within their control, they might decide to prioritize you less, they might decide that they just don’t want to do it anymore. You can never really be sure, even your best friend, your partner, your parent, your sibling, all of them can one day decide that they don’t want to be there for you, or that it’s not right for them. Even if you never gave up on them and was always there for them, they might not want or feel obligated to, or even if they feel obligated to, they might not act on it.






  • I fucking wish.

    I live in the suburbs where if you need to get to the city(which you do, often) your only option is a highway with no sidewalk or bike lanes. Public Transit is a fucking joke that is also unreasonably priced.

    I looked to buy an ev, but where I live EVs are still expensive and the second hand market is small, so I just couldn’t find anything even near my price range.

    At some point I decided that it is fucked up to have a 1000 kg piece of metal carrying a 70kg human ,as I drive alone 99% of the time. I decided to switch to a motorcycle for the environment and convenience. The motorcycle ev market is even less developed so literally nothing that I could find.

    Honestly, the whole idea that we should all own cars is fucked up and unreasonable. Public transit + short range small vehicles(scooters, ebikes, etc) should be the default.