My parents required me to let these two men join me on my solo trip in order for me to be allowed to go. They’re really cool, fun, and honestly attractive. I flirt with them, and they flirt back, it’s more of a playful game, but they told me they’d never actually do anything with me because it would be unethical/unprofessional, and my dad would probably kill them, lol. I respect that, but at the same time, they’re ex-legionnaires, I’m sure they’ve done questionable things in their lives. I’m curious what you think from an ethical perspective.

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    Who tf are you that your parents sent you off with two trained men as protection as I’m sure they have expenses also? Lol.

    You’re an adult, I guess you can play the baby sitter game to appease your parents, but there’s not really a power dynamic there unless you let there be one.

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      3 days ago

      From another post: Somebody from Switzerland who travels through Vietnam apparently.

      Average salary in CH is 20x higher

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      Who tf are you that your parents sent you off with two trained men as protection as I’m sure they have expenses also? Lol.

      With only 1 man it would have been “dangerous” LOL

      You’re an adult,

      How do you (pretend to) know?

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        I figure if you were an underage minor and these are two grown ex-legionnaires there would be no grey area on the ethics of it.